Happy moments of Everyday

Grenn Parrot (A.K.A.) Abo Acdar!

2006-10-03T12:49:00.000-07:00

This is our new pet in the house,, she is lovely and amicable. she sing and talk, she come and go out in her house without any help, she know how to close her house. most of the time she laugh as if you too will laugh with her.

Injection

2006-10-03T12:32:00.000-07:00

Today early in the morning i went to the doctor together with my husband.

I went there as to my doctors appointment to check how am i this days, she gave me last shots and hopefully i will be fine.. i hope my period and all go well, I'm tired of seeing doctors and nurses most especially that pointed needle that always threaten my butt. Ever since i was young I've been sick but don't know what is it? lots of injections and medicine, yaks! sometimes i cheated myself to throw the medicine in the sink and pretend that i drink it already..I've been in medication for more than a month now. i hope sooner or later i can have my own baby like anyone out there.

Dramatic story

2006-09-30T13:40:00.000-07:00

my story of love is pretty dramatic.

i've been from a relationships that we can call right love in a wrong time,,,, I thought that man was the right for me, my mistake i set my mind that he will be my man to marry someday, ooopsss!big mistake.. what i found was another stupid and coward .. i feel trap since then,, a man without self decision.
He always follow his mother even it means that she marry another woman just to follow tradition and worst part is he never told me.
I was cheated.
he said will go to vacation somewhere in europe,,just one to two weeks only. just right time to cheat especially when i was so busy attending my work demands, i was administrative assistant then of the company i was working before, i was super busy...
When i found out about the marraige i was devastated. my life shattered again, its really hard to trust another man again, i feel i was dying that time.. i loose my hope and dreams, im crazy too... i try to finish my life that time,, but God never allow it to happen.
I was living dead that time,i go to work and back home, no social life, i keep myself away from all. i just do my work to the best that i can do. but most of the time i cry... then another chance he call me back again, he wants to see me again,, i thought it is my chance to fight back to him, to let him feel the pain and be cheated.. i answer his call "yes" what do you want for me?" i ask strongly but my body is shaking,, " how are you?" he ask me casually, "you dont have any right to ask me anymore" i reply to him, "why?" he said like innocent baby. he is so idiot to think that im going back to him again.

No way.. not anymore he is not the only man in this world, i marked it on my mind and my heart. Put inside my mind that i have my mother to think and care not to worry and feel sad. So i have to be strong and move on.. That time my friend has visitor in the sala,, another broken heart, a good man mending his broken heart trught a stupid girl. they hear me talk to the phone that time. i cried so much not because he is cheated but because i feel bad about my self.
why i always ended in a wrong one? I ask my self, am i too easy? i thought im not, im strong and well discipline but what happen to me?My friend talk to me, she gave me a long litany of wake up call, "what are you doing to yourself?" are you stupid to cry for someone whos is not worthy of your attention and love?" There is a lot of people around and you canf ind better than him. As i mark to my mind i will never fall in love again, never.. i hate man... i think i hate all men in this worl that time,, aside from my brother and father no one at all. In my everyday life after that i hate all man...

Dreaming of Fish

2006-09-30T05:48:00.000-07:00

Did any one know what is the meaning of catching fish in dreams?

i go to the Internet after i wake up, i search and search until i come to some sort of sites describing about my dreams, they said the maybe I'm pregnant or someone of friends and relative maybe pregnant and so i went out to ask my sister living with me. And guest what she is really delayed and really want to check with the doctor.
To make it short, its true!!!! pregnancy is really a joyful news.. why is pregnancy of sister got a lot of premonition, lots of our friends dream of her being pregnant and have a baby girl.

Prenancy Test

2006-09-29T16:40:00.000-07:00

Today, I'm a little bit tired...
don't know if I'm sick but nothing is in pain, maybe little disappointment,

I've been delayed for 3 months. my husband begun to be excited and dreaming to be a daddy, he always touches my stomach expecting that there is a baby in inside of me, he can't wait and so he decide to buy that pregnancy test in the pharmacy this morning.
at first i said patienly I'm not pregnant, because i don't feel anything. he almost wanted to come with me inside the bathroom today.

This morning when i wake up and realized that he is watching me while asleep. the first words he said "lets buy a pregnancy tester" I'm puzzled and insist that I'm not pregnant or what so ever. To make it short, we got the result at hand but first he hug me, no words just hug me tightly. i feel the expectation and i see his eyes that glow. I take a deep breath and show the result. i am afraid to look at the result, I'm afraid for if it is positive or negative.. but deep inside I'm expecting it to be positive too.. to our sadness it negative... and the tears in his eyes shows and then he hug me again.. so strong, "we have to go the doctor to check you..."he said. I feel like a melting ice, i cant talk since then i feel drain..i don't know how to start talking... i want to cry.. i want to disappear or just go back to my mother, i feel i keep disappointing my husband. i feel I'm not deserving to his love... what should i do??

Steps to become Millionaire

2006-09-28T09:27:00.000-07:00

today I read this steps on how to Perfect credit and Get out of the debt, and become a Millionaire... I say really!!! who would never love to get out from the debt and become a millionaire. I will share to you this so we become millionaire too!!!

I got this big step to become a millionaire to Lynnette khalfani who write the book tittle: The Money Coach Guide to your First Million

M-Make a personal prosperity plan

I-Invest first, last and always in your own reputation

L-Live like a lender, not a borrower

L-Leverage the power of property

I-Increase your fortune with proven methods not shortcuts

O-Overcome setbacks and minimize risks to your financial health

N-Never forget the next generation

I hope this could help us to go on our first million and much more!!!!

Sunshine

2006-09-24T16:35:00.000-07:00

Good morning People!

Wow, isnt that great to watch the brake of dawn and sun shinning in the morning???? its very relaxing and amazing feeling i have this moment. i feel God is always with me. I hope everyone of us feel it once in a while. atleast.

This photo was taken in kuwait.

God bless all!!!!

The Brief history of the Tie

2006-09-24T15:49:00.000-07:00

Why don’t Iranians wear them?
How to tie it?
What makes a good tie?

Necktie, why do men still wear them? For fashion, style, etc. Well nobody knows when was the first time men wore neckties although some sort of neck covering was considered an essential in the 18th and 19th centuries. Without- tie around the neck was considered not proper in the late 18th early 19th century. It is a formal thing -that shows respect and status. During feudal times it was trend or customary for each peasant family to have their own patch of land to farm. They were assigned a plot dependant on their standing with their feudal lord and this plot was called a Tie. A post was driven into the ground and apiece of rope affixed at one end to the post and at the other to the neck of the peasant tied in a noose. If the peasant tried to farm outside his plot the noose would tighten and eventually lead to strangulation. This practice was later abandoned after the invention of the fence much to the relief of the peasants.
Landlords scoffed at their demands but were enthused by the range of colors that adorned the bodies of even the most peasants and decided upon a course of action that would eventually lead Lord Hofflewhite to invent the first tie.
NECKTIE BACK TO IRAN
Before neckties been denounced as decadents, un-Islamic and a symbol of oppressive west. Neckties are slowly coming back into fashion in Iran. The reappearance of the tie confirms that the strict social code imposed after the revolution is giving way to moderation and variety. Men too are changing some ways into once- prohibited territory. Some said they used to wear their ties only at private parties to avoid “bad treatment”, but “social restriction” has somewhat eased. Ties were never declared illegal but they virtually disappeared from public view after the revolution. Any man with a tie risked being condemned some don’t want to be followers others want to keep their own cultural identity.
A Good Necktie
Keep tradition in mind. Shirt makes the man the necktie completes him. Don’t forget tie is what people remember when momentarily glance to you. Firstly, tie must feel good to the touch. Quality can tell instinctively, trust your instincts. What to look for identify a quality tie:
· Labeled “Shell fabric all silk” or “100% cashmere”.
· Look for three-part assembly, the inner seam hand-sewn (the outer seams may be sewn by machine).
· Both ends of the loop where the narrow end begins should be sewn into the underside of the necktie or better, disappears into the central seam
· The inner lining is very rarely (NOT SILK)
Additional advice: Wool ties are for the country, silk for the city. Don’t wear a square bottom tie not even for the costume party.
How to Tie a Necktie
There are many ways to tie a necktie (I've heard of four). Four-in-Hand, Half Windsor, Full Windsor /Double Windsor and Bow Tie
Tying the Four-in-Hand Knot
Put on a round-neck T-shirt, and a dress shirt. Button the top button on the dress shirt. Turn your collar up.
Place the tie around your collar with the seam of the tie facing you. Lengths of the wide and narrow sides of the tie and how low each comes. Check to be sure the tie is not twisted behind your neck.
Cross the wide side of the tie over the narrow side of the tie about 2cm down from top button, and hold them in place.
Pass the wide part of the tie around behind the narrow part. The seam on the wide part of the tie should be facing away from you. Left index and middle fingers pointing up on top of the cross, and thumb beneath it and touching shirt.
Bring the wide part of the tie across in front of the narrow part. Keep left hand's fingers where they were before, and they will reserve a space for the wide part of the tie. The seam on the wide part of the tie should be facing towards you.
Bring the wide part of the tie up between thumb and shirt. The wide part of the tie goes behind the knot, then above the knot, then it drapes down in front of the knot. Don't twist the tie during this process - keep it flat except for the prescribed turns.
Put the wide part of the tie through the loop holding with two fingers since step 5.
To make a smaller knot, pull the wide part of the tie tighter.
To move the knot closer to your neck, pull on the narrow end of the tie and slide the knot up.
Turn the bottom of the tie up and note the tag.
Slip the narrow end of the tie through the tag. This will keep the parts from flopping around independently.
Neaten the knot, and you're presentable. Have a tie tack called a tiepin.

A Morning Thoughts

2006-09-24T13:35:00.000-07:00

When I open my eyes, in the morning,
And then say a little prayer,
When I remember yesterday, in the morning,
I murmur and say, what a tragic day,
But when I open my window, in the morning,
A Bright sunshine smile and glow!

When I always remember, in the morning,
God's grace and blessing,
When I always feel, in the morning,
The pain and sadness of yesterday,
But when I open my door, in the morning,
A Brightness of the future is smiling!

When I smile or prawn my face, in the morning,
When I saw myself in the image, in the morning,
I stop and think, oh my God! I'm aging!
And then, I change my mind and smile again!

When I heard a whistling kettle, in the morning,
When I smell brewed coffee, in the morning,
And I run rushing to the kitchen,
I say, "oh my! What a beautiful day!"

:-) !!!!

Elbow Macaroni Lasagna

2006-09-24T12:39:00.000-07:00

Ingrdients: 1 pack macaroni

1 cup morazella cheese

1 8oz.7-p

2 cups tomatoe paste

3 cups mix frozen vegetables

2 cups ground beef

2 cubs maggie beef broth

1 meduim onoin

4 cloves garlic crushed

2 tspoon salt, hotsauce,balckpepper

3 tblspoon white sugar

Procedures:

prepare macaroni as to package direction.
saute garlic until light brown, follow the onion.
add ground beef and broth cubs
cover and leave for five minutes or until tender
season with salt,black pepper, seasoning, sugar,tomatoe paste, and hotsauce to taste.
add 7-up or water can do too..Let it boil for 5 minutes.
add macaroni to the mixture mix together to blend the mixture together.
transfer to a nice baking dish and top with morazella then put it into a 170C oven and wait for the cheese to turn brown and its brown.

Nice to serve with vegetable salad and garlic bread and maybe a wine or fruit juice is fine. :-)

Bon apitite!

What is Religion?

2006-09-24T09:12:00.000-07:00

My small insight and thought of Religion

Religion is a social system of coherence based on common group of beliefs or attitudes concerning an object, person, unseen being or system of thoughts considered to be supernatural, sacred, divine or highest truth and the moral codes, practices values, institutions and rituals as associated with such belief or systems of thought. It is sometime used interchangeably with faith or belief system but is more socially defined than that of personal convictions.

It is something to believe and trust in guide our life spiritually. Religion are open inheret from elders, it is usually accustom to cultural history and magical beliefs from where we found peace of mind and learn to respect everything around us. I love and respect my religion, it is where I learn of many things in this world. It heps me to undertand life and death, why there is problem? what is the purpose of religion? Life was given to us and we are responsoble to take charge and enrich what has God created. In our life, problems keep arising that where we need guidance. Our faith will always be tested in our everyday living. Weak faith might result to mix up and turn out to trouble our mind. Some people turn to religious help and guidance, other use medical help which is common practice today, while conservative people naturally seek for guidance religiously. Religion is a something that can help us preserve the Gods love on us! Let us believe the eternal life and be aware that God is always watching us up there in heaven,
Lots of people are religiously involve by inheretance, meaning religion was baptized to a child by parents consent which is naturally practice even before. Religion are teach to them since childhood. Religion became the source of faith and truth which religious found it the base of belief. Parents is responsible in spreading God words towards immidiately family members.
Parents teaching children about religion means to open children eyes about God's eternal love to mankind.
Other people are not religiously mature unlike others do but still try to figure out to find peace of mind and learn how they difine religion.
Now a days lots and lots of people come to express their belief about religion. Some are didecating themselves to God alone.

But what is really going on now! There are war all over the world. Why we cant just stop fighting and go on to our lives. We don’t have to fight over our beliefs in God, we are not pleasing god by starting wars, God need us to spread his word of love and respect others. Its very painfull to us when some people critisize our religion or belief. Critics are present just test our faith, so why be tempted to be angry and fight back? They are some kind of evil that pulling us to comit sin like anger. We have to learn respecting other religion so that they will respect ours too.

Now during Ramadan muslim will be on fasting the whole month of ramadan, we need to respect them for not eating at their presents for they will might be tempted to look, eat or think the food which is not allowed to muslim in fasting. We don’t need to have legal law to follow as much as other religion like chrisitan, hindu, buddism, and so on . Just knowing that somebody around us is fasting, we should learn to respect and care for his decision. Do not tempt them! Eating infront of in fasting is a unspeakble. Lestin to your heart, Stop fighting!
"religion is not for war it is for love and respect others"

"do onto others what you want others do onto you"

Cream of Mushroom Soup

2006-09-22T16:16:00.000-07:00

I believe someone is searching for a good soup especailly this time of ramadan..i suggest you try this..

1/2 pound [227 g] fresh mushrooms
1 tablespoon [15 mL] butter
2 tablespoons [30 mL] chopped onion
2 tablespoons [30 mL] flour
1 cup [250 mL] warm chicken broth
1 1/2 cups [375 mL] milk
Chopped parsley, to taste
A few whole fresh mushrooms [to decorate]
Chop fresh mushrooms.
Melt butter into a casserole.
Lightly brown chopped mushrooms and onion in melted butter.
Stir in flour, then warm chicken broth.
Simmer for approximately 5 minutes.
Puree into a blender.
Pour mixture back into casserole.
Stir in milk and chopped parsley.
Simmer for 4 minutes.
Serve, decorated with whole fresh mushrooms.

happy eating...

Ramada Kareem

2006-09-22T13:11:00.000-07:00

September 23,2006, another chance of to pray, i mean really pray and console our self, im not really muslim, but im preparing to be a muslim, its not that i dont have respect to my religion or what. it just happen that my husband is a muslim and i decide to convert also so we can understand each other more...

Creativeness- Let Lose!

2006-09-21T09:15:00.000-07:00

I want to create my own version of baptismal/christening, but i dont have the right software. i keep on searchin on the net. but all i got is ready made to order. i want something that will help create and let out my ability.Huh:-( im really tired. need help.

Baptismal Invitation

2006-09-21T06:02:00.000-07:00

Another thing is when people around you look up on you and idolized you. you have to acknowledge how they love or like you. You dont have to dispoint them.
Sometimes, i have to broke my promises but i assure them that i can make-up after,
Just like this instance, my sister ask me to sponsor on christianing my newfew(Ninang). I'm away million miles away from home, so i need to ask somebody to proxy on me. No offense, i want to be there...all the at thier especial moment in life.

Celebrate with a Cake

2006-09-21T05:13:00.000-07:00

Every people celebrate birthday, Each wish to have happy and unique way and age naturally represent with candle. Candle on top of the cake how big it is. Blowing the candle AFTER saying thank you and making wish is Common practice especially for the children.

You... do you have a wish?

do you have somebody to care for a wish?

A Story of My Mother By: Annette

2006-09-21T04:59:00.001-07:00

Story about my mother, a story of honoring her,
A story about how she has always taken care of me
A story that helps me to know myself
A story that would always reminds me of how lucky I am.

A story about my mother,
A story when she cried at my first broken heart,
A story when I cause her worried and cry,
A story that would always make me sorry for what I have done,
A story that of what I would not have done. I would rather make her smile.

A story about my mother,
A story that makes her laugh and smile, a story that will make her proud,
A story that will remain true to my heart, a story that I will tell to my children,

A story that makes me who I am, a story of mother and daughter,
A story of a wonderful experience and happiness we shared,
A story that will never change,
A story that will touch your heart,

A story about my mother,
A story that I would like to tell million times,
A story that I am proud off, a story that makes me a good person,
A story of my inspiration and beloved mother,

Butter Cookies

2006-09-21T02:26:00.000-07:00

Holiday Spritz Cookies
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Butter cookies made with the cookie press, also known as Spritz Cookies. Spritz cookies can be challenging, but once your dough is the right consistency and you master the press, your cookies will be beautiful. Measure all ingredients precisely.
INGREDIENTS:
1 cup butter, room temperature
1 small package (3 ounces) cream cheese, room temperature
1 cup granulated sugar
1 egg yolk
1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon almond extract
2 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon baking powder
1/4 teaspoon salt
PREPARATION:
Preheat oven to 350°.
Cream butter and cream cheese until light. Add sugar; beat until light and fluffy. Beat in egg yolk, vanilla, and almond extract. Combine flour with baking powder and salt; add to the creamed mixture gradually.
Shape the cookie dough into small logs which will fit into your cookie press. Press onto ungreased cookie sheet or baking mats. Bake for about 12 to 15 minutes, or until bottoms are lightly browned. Depending on shapes, use jam or cherry halves for centers, green decorative sugar for trees and wreaths, and so on.Makes about 3 to 4 dozen cookies.

A good chance in bonding with the family.- cooking together!
Happy Cooking:-)

10 Mistakes Women Make with Men

2006-09-20T14:06:00.000-07:00

The 10 Mistakes Women Make With Men
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The 10 Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make
With Men - And What To Do About It...
Here Are The Top Reasons Why Women Cheat Themselves
Out Of Living The Love Life Of They're Dreams- And
How To Make Sure You Avoid Every One Of Them...
Mistake #1) Betting Your Love-Life On His "Potential"
Do you know any women who want the man
they're dating to behave differently?
Of course you do.
And just like me, I'm sure you have friends
who date guys who don't have much going for them
or who don't treat them very well.
Somehow these women always have an excuse
for the guy's shortcomings.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple.
Women (and men) don't base their choices of
men on how "nice" or "good" someone is to them
day-to-day.
Women choose the men they do because they
feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Some women will continue to put up with a
guy that doesn't treat them very well.
Sometimes for months or years...
But why in the world would a woman do that!?
Well, to put it simply, they confuse the
strong attraction they feel for the guy with
a deeper "connection".
Women who do this are doomed to end up
in failed relationships with the "wrong" guys.
How do I know?
Because I've seen it at least a hundred
times...
And because I've been this guy in the past
myself.
Thinking back on past dating and relationships
I've had, I was selfish and didn't offer much.
I'm amazed the women put up with me.
But they did...all the while hoping that
I would somehow change.
The women I dated hoped I'd change.
The only thing they saw in me that led
them to want to keep me around was the "potential"
they saw in me to share my feelings and communicate
with them.
The potential for something better and
the potential for me to change and be a better
lover, boyfriend, companion or whatever...
The truth was, I was hopelessly bad at these
things at the time.
And more importantly, I wasn't even at a place
in my life where I knew how to or was interested
in developing a deep and committed relationship -
with ANYONE.
But deep down these women believed that if
they tried hard enough, that it would make up
for what was lacking.
They believed that I could become someone else
with them.... and that this would be easy for us
both.
Talk about a losing battle.
I doesn't make a lot of "logical" sense...
But until you accept that lots of women do
this AND that YOU could be doing it on some level,
you'll NEVER have the success with men that you
choose and want.
Mistake #2) Assuming You "Get" Men & Their Psychology
Men are different from women.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a woman sees a man, she can very quickly
pick apart certain things about his style, body
language, status and character that will tell her
all kinds of things about him.
Lot's of women don't even consciously see that
they do this because the process is so obvious and
simple for them.
But does the same apply for men?
As you probably already know, men are generally
more visual.
As a result, they often don't understand
non-verbal communication as well as women.
And men often lack what women have in emotional
awareness and "intuition".
Women don't seem to remember this about men.
So do men feel sexually attracted to w0men
based just on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for years now,
and talking to thousands of men and women, I can
tell you that men have their "attraction mechanisms"
triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Especially when it comes to longer term
relationships.
Looks just happen to be the most obvious way...
But looks are NOT the most powerful.
If you know how to use your body language AND
communication correctly, you can make men feel
the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to
you that YOU feel when you see that hot, great
looking guy that you got to know.
But it's not an accident.
You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY woman can learn how...
Mistake #3) Pretending To Be Something For A Man
In the desire to please a man, women are
constantly doing things to get a man's attention,
to get him to like them or to make him more
attracted or in love with them.
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Lots of women mistakenly think that doing
unusual things to try and get a guys attention
will make him magically see what a great catch
they are and want to be with them.
Wrong.
Men YOU TRULY WANT are never attracted to
the types of women who kiss up to them, make
weak plays for affection or complain to get
what they want... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here. Things like being
sexy for a man or encouraging him to share his
feelings can be good, but it has to be genuine,
unselfish, and most of all timely.
You don't have to act like an "easy" woman
for men to like you, and you certainly don't have
to play like he's some gift to the Earth.
Doing these things actually works to subtly,
at an subconscious level, lower your social status
with a man, which has EVERYTHING to do with how
he sees you as a woman.

So if you think that making him more attracted
to you means "playing to the man's fantasies" from
the start, think again.
You'll never succeed by looking for a man's
approval, finding your way into his heart through
sex and not being yourself.
Mistake #4) Sharing How You "Feel" Too Early With Him
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that
most women make with men is sharing how they
"feel" too early on.
Listen...
Attractive, single, successful men are rare.
They get a LOT of attention from women.
Most women don't realize this, but attractive men
are being approached in one way or another all the
time by women.
And guess what?
Attractive wen have usually dated a lot of women.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive men off
and sends him running away faster than just about
anything...
It's a woman who starts saying "You know, I really,
REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the man that you're just like
one of those "clingy" stereotype women who want
to rush into a relationship and can't control
yourself from wanting a man to fulfill them and
complete their lives.
This does NOT spell ATTRACTION for a man.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...
Mistake #5) Misreading The Important "Signals" That Men Send
Men are constantly communicating how they
feel about a woman and giving away big secrets
about themselves.
Most women don't pay attention to these
signals or recognize them for what they really
are.
The signals men send have 4 main levels:
1) Social: Where the man is at in his own life -
stability, confidence, direction
2) Emotional: Whether or not he's "emotionally
available"
3) Physical: If he's attracted to you and for
what reasons
4) Love State: If he's open to building and growing
a relationship in the future
The funny thing is that men send signals in
these areas completely on accident.
That's great news to women....
Men can't help it!
You need to learn to recognize these signals to
get anywhere with a man.
Mistake #6) Relying On Your Natural Ability To Judge
A Man's Character
People aren't easy to figure out.
Especially the opposite sex.
The last several years of my life I've
spent hundreds of hours learning to understand
people.
I've studied peoples behavior, "inner
psychology" and more specifically how they
think and act when they're dating.
From what I've seen, both men and women
have their own secret ways of saying things.
But you can only see these secret
communications if you know what to look for.
Women communicate with hints, body
language, sarcasm, and flirting when they're
first getting to know a man.
They can either directly or indirectly
let men know if they're open to something
more serious.
Men are different.
Men generally communicate with sarcasm,
humor, cockyness and other "indirect" displays
of status.
Very rarely will a man be able to honestly
communicate to a woman whether or not he's
ready or capable of developing a meaningful
relationship.
Aside from their sexual interests, men
send very indirect signals about where they're
at.
If you don't know how to read through the
signals men send, then you'll get the wrong
message.
Getting the wrong messages from men causes
women more pain and heartache than any other
issue around.
You can avoid this pain if you learn to
indentify a good man from a bad one.
Mistake #7) Expecting A Relationship To Make You Happy
A mistake I've seen women make is thinking
a guy will change her life and make her happy
and fulfilled.
And sure, there are situations and relationships
where this happens.
But those are the exceptions, not the rule.
Nothing says "Run!" to a man faster than
hearing or sensing that a woman immediately
wants him to take care of her.
And the men who ARE looking for this kind
of situation aren't exactly the most healthy,
loving, nurturing people out there.
Think, "controlling, macho or serious Mom Issues!"
So let me be clear....
I think it's important that people help
fulfill each other in their lives, whether
it's dating, a relationship, etc.
But if a woman communicates that she's
looking for a guy to take care of her, complete
her, make her whole, and all that kind of
stuff - it has a VERY negative effect on what
the man will think of her.
It doesn't have to be spoken by the woman
either...
If a woman thinks or feels this way, the man
will see it and pick up on it, regardless.
This is arguably the worst thing a woman
can do early on when dating a man.
So what can you do as a woman?
You can get the man interested and involved
in your life in a more "natural" way, where
he'll be motivated to make you care about your
happiness and fulfillment on his own.
This is the only way it really works for
people - male or female.
Self-motivation is much stronger than external
motivation.
But you have to know how to create this situation
with a man....and it rarely happens by accident.
Mistake #8) Trying To "Convince" Him To Like You Or Love You
What do most women do when they meet a man
that they REALLY like... but he's just not
that interested or isn't as serious?
Right! They try to "convince" the man to
feel differently.
Well, I have news for you...
YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A MAN "FEELS" WHEN
IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, ever.
You cannot convince a man to feel differently
about you with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a man doesn't "feel it" for you, how in
the world do you expect to change that by being
"reasonable" with him?
But we all do it.
Men are the worst at this by the way.
They're always complimenting women who
don't like them and buying them gifts.
Women like the behavior sometimes, but it
NEVER makes the woman like the man.
She might enjoy what she gets out of it,
but it doesn't change the way she FEELS
about him.
When a man just isn't interested, women
will try and chase, compliment, convince and
do their best to change his mind with logical
and rational approaches.
Bad idea. Another one that will never work.
Mistake #9) Not Knowing What To Do In Each Type Of Situation
A man has a clear idea of what he wants from
a woman...
And I don't mean just sex.
I know, it might be hard to believe, but
if you're out on a date with a man, he already
has an idea of what he wants from you.
And if you don't know HOW to find this out,
and you just sit there looking at him and flirting,
or trying things you think will make him want you,
he won't help!
If you don't know what to do in each situation,
you'll probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
Mistake #10) Not Getting Help
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This mistake keeps women from EVER having
the kind of success and finding the kind of
man and relationship that they truly want.
I know, you don't like to make yourself
look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask
for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me.
Over the last few years it's been hard to
watch the women around me (even those I dated)
struggle to understand the men they were
attracted to or dating.
It frustrated the hell out of me and I
made the decision to do whatever it took to
help the women I knew learn how to be successful
with men and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and doing all
kinds of crazy things to learn the real-world
truth about men and women, I finally figured
things out for myself.
I've read hundreds of books on psychology,
human behavior, dating/relationship advice for
men and women, love, attraction, communication,
and more. The list goes on.
I can now approach just about any situation
with dating and feel confident and understand
everything that's going on in an interaction.
Best of all, I've been able to share my
knowledge and help women become more successful
with men and dating.
It's been a very rewarding experience, and
it's how I became fascinated with the female
perspective in the dating world.
I've helped women get rid of that sick,
insecure feeling... the one you get when you're
lonely, you've been hurt or lied to, or when a
man you have feelings for says "he's not ready".
You don't have to be afraid you might wind up
being lied to, cheated on or that you'll end up
alone.
After several years, helping woman after woman,
I now publish a free email newsletter that teaches
any woman how to increase her success with men
DRAMATICALLY.
You'll be receiving these newsletters in your
inbox at the address you gave on the last page.
Of course, it even get's better than that...
In addition to my free email newsletter, I also
have an amazing downloadable eBook that you can
download right now and be reading in literally
MINUTES.
It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of
specific strategies for overcoming your fears,
meeting men, great ideas around first dates,
cheat-proofing your relationships, and how to
take things to a closer "emotional" and "physical"
level smoothly and easily.
In this day and age of "instant gratification",
I realize this might just sound like another
late-night info-mercial promising to make you
wealthy and retired by next week.
Well, that's not the case.
I've spent a lot of time, effort, and energy
studying, observing and understanding this area
of life.
I wanted to design and create a book that ANY
woman could easily understand.
Something you could start using IMMEDIATELY to
meet, attract, date, and keep a great guy.
I want to help you create an amazing relationship
with the right man... without having to deal with
all the wrong men, be "manipulated" or experience
pain and loss.
I now believe that ANY woman can be more
successful with men and dating, and I get emails
every day with success stories from women. They've
taken what they've learned and found great guys
and are growing meaningful relationships.
I know, I know... a book that can teach a regular
girl how to be more successful in the dating world?
No way.
Well believe me, this will DRAMATICALLY increase
your success, comfort and happiness when it comes
to men, dating and relationships... I absolutely
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If you'd like to take your success with men and
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And I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,
Christian Carter
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Wonderful Husband

2006-09-20T08:59:00.000-07:00

Hello Everybody!

Lately my husband is doing great in nourishing our relationships, well actually we dont experience some brake through story together but we really suffer from our difference, but since we love each other we work hard to stay together.
before, i have to beg him to go out sometimes, atleast once or twice a month now. i dont have to ask or beg, he always invite me to go out with him,he always ask me where to go, what i want to buy, or where i want to eat.or do i need shopping. actually, i dont work outside, im not a workingwife. i just work at home, in my convenience of time., isn't that great. we really love each other.

Romantic things to do 4 your Boy/Girl Friend

2006-09-20T02:16:00.000-07:00

( 50 most romantic things to do w/ you b/f or g/f)

1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Whisper to each other.
3. Cook for each other.
4. Walk in the rain.
5. Hold hands
6. Buy gifts for each other.
7. Roses.
8. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time you're together.
9. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
10. Write poetry for each other.
11. Hugs are the universal medicine.
12. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
13. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc.
14. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie!
15. Spend every second possible together.
16. Look into each other's eyes.
17. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly. 18. When in public, only flirt with each other.
19. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking.
20. Buy her a ring.
21. Sing to each other.
22. Always hold her around her hips/sides.
23. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.
24. Spaghetti? (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)
25. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
26. Dance together.
27. I love the way a girl looks right after she's fallen asleep with her head in my lap.
28. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.
29. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes
30. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
31. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them.
32. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.
34. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
35. Be Prince Charming to her parents.
36. Brush her hair out of her face for her.
37. Hang out with his/her friends.
38. Go to church/Mosque: pray/worship together.
39. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
40. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice.
41. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.
42. Make sacrifices for each other.
43. Really love each other, or don't stay together.
44. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
45. Love yourself before you love anyone else.
46. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages.
47. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
48. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
49. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.
50. Never forget the kiss goodnight and always remember to say, "Sweet dreams."

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Happy Working now a days

2006-09-18T14:01:00.000-07:00

"before i was dreaming of being a successful career woman someday, now i realize that its hard to stablish one". at first i try working in a foriegn manufacturing company way back home. its fun working but the disappointing point is the small salary for long hours.
"now i discover a most rewarding job" that makes me contented in my life is i'm working at home, at my own working time, i am the boss of my own business, pretty well ha!
I can sleep long enough or i can work as long as i want, if i'm tired then i take a break, no one will comment this, i can st the way i want. or even work in my bed,:-)
please visit my website: www.annette-naturesway.piczo.com or www.ktm-mag.com

have fun reading!

Welcome Reader

2006-09-18T12:49:00.000-07:00

dear reader,

greetings!
im bring a new place to communicate to everyone. i love to write anything under the sun. i am a jounior writer contributor in a local magazine here in kuwait. i f you have time you can check our website. www.ktm-mag.com and my personal website which i continuesly updating www.annette-naturesway.piczo.com ,hope you will enjoy reading.

hope to hear from you next time,